Tomorrow at 10:30am I'm giving a free speech at the Riverside Public Library. (In Riverside Illinois)
All are welcome!
The title is:
Growing Bolder
Tools and Techniques for Thriving at Every Age
Presenting the Latest Research that
PROVES life gets better as we age,
and our attitudes, actions and language
all play a part in living with more
Happiness, Strength and Vigor
than ever before!
This speech encapsulates what I truly believe, and have researched and lived my entire life ~ that we are responsible for creating our own happiness, and that OUR HAPPINESS IS IMPORTANT. When we thrive ~ when we live fulfilling, happy contributive lives, our energy is contagious. And now there's scientific evidence that this is true.
Science is really coming a long way to support the things that I have long believed, but had no evidence to support.
Science now proves that emotions are contagious, and we really ARE as old as we think. People who embrace getting older with a spirit of optimism live longer, happier and healthier lives. I also present my own insights on how our language determines our lives, not just describes our lives.
Our WORDS MATTER!
I tell a story about a time when I was in the car with my babies and the car just stopped in the highway...in the cold rain in San Francisco. At that moment I had a decision to make. Were we going to have a "disaster" or an "adventure"? I chose adventure! And me and my two little boys aged 4 and 2 at the time had so much fun that we even got to ride in a tow truck! We laughed and laughed. We have the choice to frame our lives by our language every single day.
We can be "overwhelmed" and a victim of our lives, or we can be "in demand" and important. The choice is up to us!
I've been giving this speech quite often lately, and I weave stories about the wonderful senior living community that I represent into the speech.
I prepare for every speech just like I do every Buddhist meeting. I chant that every single participant will hear something that changes their life and outlook forever...I chant that they leave with their cells rearranged and with more hope and vigor than ever before!
All my Buddhist training as a youth division member, a meeting Emcee and a District Leader are being put to good use in the world.
I owe so much to my practice and the SGI!