Saturday, August 13, 2011

An Experience from my New friend in Australia! So inspiring!



This is from my new friend Nathan. Read it and be inspired by HOW FAST chanting Daimoku can impact your life. And remember, sometimes we go through the lows so that they can bring us to a much more incredible HIGH!!!

I discovered Daishonin Buddhsim through my councillor, I had a problem problems with my life, anger, addiction, hurting the ones I love most emotionally, mentally. About four weeks ago, my beautiful, loving, caring, wonderful wife left me because of these problems I had, all she wanted is for me to respect her, treat her with the love and care she has always showed me. But I just blew it off all the time, saying that I can fix myself, I don't need a councillor or any help, OMG was I wrong!!! What I didn't realize was that I did need help, and bad, so about three days ago I went to see my councillor, my wife came along to support me, to make a long story short, the things she said to the councillor about the way she feels and that she was happier in the past few weeks then when she was with me shocked my system drastically, I had been extremely depressed over the past few weeks from my wife leaving me but those few things she pointed out to the councillor hurt me more then any pain I ever felt, it was like a knife to the heart. My wife left the session early, and I stayed behind, let me add I'm South African and my wife is Australian, so I was here on a sponsorship from my wife, when she left mr, she withdrew her sponsorship and that gave me twenty eight days to stay in the country. So because of thy my councillor suggested I try Nichiren Daishonin Buddhism out, I thought to myself heck what so I have to lose, I've lost everything already. So we started to practice chanting, (Nam- myoho-renge-kyo) after the first five minutes I started to get the hang of it, after ten minutes I felt this amazing warmth insid of me, I felt relaxed, like the sadness had left my mind, I felt energized, peaceful. That afternoon I was walking through Melbourne city, and the thought popped in my head. So I stopped at the best florist in the city, and bought my gorgeous wife here favorite flowers (Lillie's) I went passed her parents place and I ran the bell, no answer, I rang again, no answer, so I rang a friend that lives in the complex, to my surprise he was home, and trust me he's never home. He opened and I sat on the stairs in front of her place, about 30 min she came down the stairs as two lovely ladies were entering the stairwell, she was surprised as heck, I gave her the flowers and a card, she offered me a lift on the way to one of her dancing classes she teaches at, we got to talking and when I left her on my way to the train station she hugged me, kissed me and told me she loves me. Gosh I felt amazing!! For the first time in weeks. I felt something other then pain and heart ache. 
So that night I got home, had dinner and went to my room, I started chanting loud and proud with all my heart thinking how much I would love my wife to give me another chance so that I could show her that I can change and I can be that man she fell in love with, I won't make another empty promise to her again, I did this for the next day aswell morning and evening, then this morning 13/08/2011 I went to work and I waited outside my office for 2 hours waiting for my boss to arrive, while I was waiting I started chanting in the work van, again loud and proud, for about thirty minutes. By then I realized my boss wasn't coming so I thought let me go take a walk in the city, I got near my parents inlaw's place, I decided To ask my wonderful mother inlaw if she'd like to go for coffee with me, she came down and told me that they were cleaning the carpets, so we sat down and had a long talk ( about an hour and a half) then my wife arrived from teaching, I asked her if she wanted to grab a coffee or something, she said YES!! so we went into the city and had a coffee, we ended up spending the entire day together, holding hands, kissing, hugging, you know.... What I'm trying to say is that even after three days of chanting Nam-Myoho-Renge-kyo my life started to change, I've started to feel hope again happiness, compassion, I feel fantastic!!! All I can say is that I believe and I'm no where near gonna give up, Nichiren Daishonin Buddhism is in me and is here to stay. I wanna thank you for your blog it has inspired me to never give up on my happiness, on my wife, on my life. Thank you with my heart of hearts thank you to you and my new mentor Nichiren Daishonin for giving me this wonderful and joyful gift of faith and enlightenment. THANK YOU


5 comments:

  1. Hi all, just to let you know, she invited me to a movie last night, it was beautiful, we laughed, we cried, but most of all we are still in love and the happiness in our hearts shone through. Even though I still have to leave the country, we are happy, happy that we have each other in our hearts. Nam-Myoho-Renge-kyo

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  2. So you are saying that chanting Nam Myoho Renge Kyo makes you happy?

    I have been doing it for 16 days two times a day right now. Sometimes three days.

    Everything says you start to notice big changes after 90 days. Is that true in your experience??

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  3. I've noticed a change in my attitude to others, and towards myself, and that makes me happy.

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  4. Dear david

    I've been chanting for 8months now and I had similar curiosity as urs, I know we want it to hurry up. Thing is every one's karma is different therefore it works diferently and best way possible for each individual. There's no fixed time like "by 3rd day u will see and improvement" or anything like that, how long are u chanting for? Chant for at least 5mins, have a goal, tell the mystic law to prove it works, keep chanting u'll see the most amazing benefit. Keep going ur doing the best thing for ur life. Study abt it a lot, and clear ur doubts abt it, keep going

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  5. I DON'T HAVE TO LEAVE!!! we took a road trip down to Adelaide together for three days, during the drive back home, about 30 min away, she told me the greatest news I've ever heard, she asked me to stay and she gave me my sponsorship back, we're busy looking at a new apartment. And I've got an interview with a car dealership outta the blue, my life is truly changing for the better, and best of all, her seeing this change in me has inspired my wife to start chanting for herself, I didn't have to tell her to or force her in anyway, she decided it for herself. Nam-Myoho-Renge-Kyo loud and proud!!

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